There’s something about turning sixty that brings a subtle shift in perspective. Time starts to feel more finite, and the sense of “one day” becomes more like “why not today?” It’s not about rushing or panicking. It’s about recognising that now is as good a time as any to start doing more of what matters to you. One lovely way to approach this is by creating a bucket list. 

Now, the term “bucket list” has taken on a slightly dramatic tone in popular culture. You might picture daredevils flinging themselves out of planes or climbing sheer cliff faces. And if that’s your thing, fantastic. But a bucket list doesn’t need to be extreme or extravagant. At its core, it’s simply a personal list of experiences, activities, or goals you want to pursue. And turning sixty might just be the perfect moment to begin. 

So where do you start? 

Begin with a gentle reflection. Think less about what’s expected and more about what lights you up. What have you always wanted to do, but haven’t? Is there a skill you’ve longed to learn, a place you’ve dreamed of visiting, a person you’ve meant to reconnect with? Your list should feel more like a source of joy than pressure. 

Choosing meaningful experiences is really about tuning into what makes life feel richer for you. That might mean travelling to far-flung destinations, or it could just as easily be taking a solo train ride to a city you’ve never explored. Perhaps you’ve always wanted to master the piano, take a painting class, write your life story, or walk part of the coast path. Your list should reflect your personality and your pace. 

Think small and big. A well-rounded list might include both grand plans and quieter joys. The delight of afternoon tea at a historic hotel. The challenge of learning conversational Spanish. A day volunteering somewhere that means something to you. Reading the classics. Rewilding your garden. The point is, it’s your list. No one else’s. 

Setting achievable goals is less about limiting your dreams and more about increasing the likelihood you’ll follow through. If your goal is to travel more, try listing one specific destination you’d like to visit in the next year. If you’d love to learn to paint, set aside time each week to experiment. It’s amazing how ticking off even one item can give a sense of accomplishment and momentum. 

Of course, there will be practicalities to consider. Budget, health, time. But these don’t have to be barriers. They’re part of the landscape. If travel is tricky, can you explore locally? If skydiving is off the cards, what about a hot air balloon ride? If funds are tight, is there a free or low-cost alternative that gives a similar feeling? 

And remember, your bucket list isn’t set in stone. It should be a living document. Add to it as new ideas spark. Cross things off when they no longer feel relevant. Revisit it when you need inspiration or a little nudge to try something new. You might even find it becomes more than a list, a gentle guide to making the most of your days. 

If you’re not sure how to get started, keep a notebook by your side or use your phone to jot down ideas as they come. You might be surprised how quickly the list grows. Ask friends what’s on theirs. Swap ideas. Inspire one another. 

At TurningSixty, we believe it’s never too late to dream, to plan, or to do. Whether your bucket list ends up pinned to the fridge, written in a journal, or living quietly in the back of your mind, let it be a reminder that life still holds adventure, joy, and discovery. 

So go on, start the list. Make it yours. And see where it takes you.